Tuesday, September 22, 2009

BB @ Infant Care Centre

Yuan2 started going to Infant Care Centre (IFC) on Sept 2. We were worried abt this big change for her :-
1) mummy is her main caregiver for the past 4 months
- mummy/daddy bath n feed her
- wonder how she will react to a stranger feeding/bathing her...
2) from a non-aircon to a fully aircon environment
- since birth, she sleeps n plays in non-aircon environment (coz daddy & mummy will have running nose n dry throat when we sleep in aircon room)
- wonder whether she will feel too cold...
3) from quiet to noisy environment
- at home, it is quiet and she is easily waken up by noises like opening door/window etc.
- wonder if she can sleep with other babies playing ard her...


The IFC is located in NUS -- abt 30min drive from home and 5min drive from my workplace. Currently, there are 5 teachers looking after 12 babies -- only Yuan2 and a 2-mth-old boy, Hayden, are immobile while the rest can crawl n walk. The place is spacious with separate area for sleeping, feeding, reading & activities.

From top n clockwise : Cupboards to put her clothes, towels & hankies; Basket to put milk bottles; white board to note her last feed n last diaper change; basket for her toiletries & diaper.




Spacious environment with separate areas for various activities like reading, singing, playtime etc.


Yuan2 on bouncer when the teachers are busy feeding solids to older babies



I stayed with her for the first 2 days to observe how she adapt to this new lifestyle. To my utter surprise n amazement, she was a little angel on her first day there! She slept while other babies were screaming, playing, and crawling ard her. All my worries were unfounded!




When Tr Mona fed her EBM 200ml, she finished within 5mins -- at home, sometimes she will fuss/cry and took 30 mins to finish it!
She was curiously looking ard when Tr Su bathed her -- Tr Su commented that normally babies will cry @ their first bath there but Yuan2 seemed to enjoy it :)


Different teachers will read story book, sing nursery rhymes, play toys with her inbetween her naps.



During my 2-day of observation, there are 2 peak periods at 9am and 3pm where most babies feeding clashed. Once, Yuan2 was crying but all the teachers had their hands full -- I felt heartpain that my little darling was neglected and carried her. Upon seeing this, one of the teachers quickly took over from me. Haiz, I knew they cannot give Yuan2 100% attention -- juz hope Yuan2 will learn to be more independent. Other than that, I am happy with the enthusiasium n patience of the teachers -- can see they genuinely like babies.

After 3 weeks there, Yuan2 looks forward to go IFC -- she will smile at the teacher when I bring her over in the morning and open her mouth during routine check for ulcers(signs of Hand Foot Mouth disease). When mummy waves goodbye to her, she is more interested in looking at the colourful decorations ard her *haha* To put my mind at ease @ work, the teachers will take pics of her and emailed to me -- that's a very nice gesture.


Routine
After Yuan2 started IFC, life has become more routine. We will prepare her stuff the nite before -- change of clothes, towel, hankies, nappy cloth, diapers, milk bottles and EBM. Here's how our typical day is like :-
6.30am - change her diaper and latch her for her 1st feed.
7.30am - dress her warmly in long pants, cap, mittens n booties, I will 'load' her in the car and drive to IFC
8.00am - reach IFC and settle her down before leaving for work
5.45pm - miss my little princess and pick her up straight after work
6.30pm - reach home, wipe her down, play with her and have dinner
7.30pm - bottle feed her last feed and zzz soon after

Now, we have little time to bond with her... I sure miss the days when I can spend a leisure day at home with her and watch her grow bit by bit... But I am consoled that she is doing well @ IFC -- she enjoys the company of other babies and attention of the teachers.

P.S. Mummy bought many new clothes for Yuan2 -- coz she has outgrow her existing sleepsuits & long sleeves top n pants!


Thursday, September 17, 2009

BB @ 4th Month

Gosh, it has been a month since I last update this blog! Our little princess is keeping mummy & daddy on their toes :) Yuan2 is becoming more expressive -- deafening scream when hungry/unhappy vs hearty chuckle when excited/happy... and actively using her hands n legs to grab/kick...

How time flies -- Yuan2 is 20-week today! Here's her happening for the past few weeks :-

1) Mummy heard her first loud chucke while playing with her @ Week 17 -- so cute to see her throw back her head in happy laughter :) Too bad daddy was not around to video this funny moment...


2) Yuan2 got a new look @ Week 18 -- we shaved her spikey funky hair @ 4mth and she had first taste of food. We put her on 3-day trial @ infant care centre(IFC) as mummy will be back @ work the following week.


Yuan2 looks like a boy -- so mummy bought cute girly headband for her :)

3) At Week 19, she preferred to sit up than lie down -- she took her first seat on a bb chair and join us for dinner @ the dining table :) She loves greenery and enjoy sitting by the window watching the green green grass patch infront of our place.



4) Without any warning signs, she did her first flip @ Week 20! And now, she will flip at every chance *haha* She is also learning to sit up...



BB outings
Brought Yuan2 to join our 3rd SMH May babies n mummies gathering -- this time was a small group of 5 babies @ mummy Joyce's place. We had a home-cooked pasta + mushroom soup lunch. Mummy Joyce is a very experienced mother of 3 kids -- she demo-ed how to use the baby sling and gave me valuable tips :)

After lunch, I drove over to TK's work place -- to "show off" Yuan2 to his colleagues before we shaved her hair.


4th Month Bday
According to Hokkien tradition, We shaved Yuan2 hair on her 4th month birthday. We brought her to a kids hair saloon -- Junior League @ Suntec City. A TV screen was playing Barney show to keep kids glued to the screen and sit still for the cut. The hairdresser tried to persuade us to keep Yuan2 hair -- juz trim instead of shave... I nearly gave it but TK insisted on shaving... Yuan2 was a good girl -- sat on my lap and let the hairdresser shaved..



Yuan2 also had her first taste of food :-
- mee sua to signify long life
- drumstick to signify have meat throughout her life
- mushroom to signify sweet smell mouth- prawn to signify rosy lips
- egg to signify round n abundance



Yuan2 was so excited to taste new food -- kept pushing the food in her mouth :)