Here's how my day looks like :-
6am - latch on bb for early morning feed, while bb zz, will grab a quick breakfast
7am - bath bb (getting better)
8am-6pm - latch on bb, do laundry & housework, cook n eat quick lunch, pacify bb with lotsa of walking n rocking
6pm - give bb a dry bath, wipe face and change clothes
7pm - dinner and bring bb for after dinner walk
8pm - my shower time while TK bottle feed bb with EBM
9-10pm - TK's playtime with bb while I nap
10pm - 11pm - TK bottle feed bb with FM while I express milk
11pm - midnite - zzz time
4am - latch on bb
Darlg TK is very supportive -- rush home from work to cook dinner and take over baby care. Though both of us are tired, it is still a joy to see our little princess growing with each passing day :)
Breastfeeding
Initially, Yuan2 was crying for milk every hour -- I was stressed, tired and sad that my milk supply was unable to meet her demand. Expecially disheartening to see her wake up crying for milk :( We re-introduced bottle feeding to let me take a rest and get my sanity back. After dinner, I would stop latch on and TK would bottle feed with EBM or FM. The last feed at 10pm, we will give her 90ml of FM and that can last her 4-5 hours. I would express at 10pm and store in fridge for next day's use.
Baby crying
First 2 days, I was stressed out as Yuan2 was crying all the time -- when I put my finger close to her mouth, she will open wide to signal that she wants milk. FAINT, milk at every hour? Read in the books that I should delay her feeding if too close (kinda like training her endurance) and distract her with sing song, toys etc. So I will check her diaper, feel her temperature (not too hot/cold), rock and sing to her -- 50% success rate to get her to stop crying and doze off :)
First Visit to PD
We brought Yuan2 to a PD near our home for her 2nd dose of Hep B jab. Doc did a development assessment for her -- everything is in place :) Her weight has increased to 3.5kg and she has grown taller at 54.5cm (haha, must be all the kicking n stretching over the past month). Doc commented that she has BM jaundice but will go away in 1-2 weeks time -- nothing to worry as she pee n poo many times a day. Doc warned that the jab will be painful but our brave little girl only cried during injection and doze off the next moment. Amazingly, she slept through the whole journey -- not woken up by the noisy kids playing in the clinic!
Here's pics of the week :-

Yuan2 dressed up to go to my parents' place to celebrate her full month

Yuan2 sleeping soundly in the car seat -- think she enjoys the car motion!

Yuan2 in her stroller -- sleeping again!

Yuan2 sleeping on her tummy with pointy bum - with our close supervision

TK training Yuan2 -- rolling on the bolster :P
Dressed up Yuan2 in body suits
After dinner walk with Yuan2 -- she sleeps all the way *wacko*
Yuan2 dun like the rocking chair -- TK laughed amusingly!
2 comments:
Just returned to Spore.
Hey D, both you & TK are both doing fabulously as 1st time parents. Seeing the photos and reading your posts makes me think back of the old days :))
It can be really tiring (I saw what my wife went thru, esp experssing @ work and b4 work and b4 sleep) everyday + direct in evenings. 1st baby (bf + formula) but 2nd baby was bf only, both ard 11 mths of bf. Hang in there. Eat and rest well whenever you can. You're doing excellently well.
TK, you're fantastic. I never had to cook!
kcslchin, thanks for ur encouragement :)
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